I agree with most of your comments, except for the fact Tony codes gay to me. I can see him being asthetically attracted to women, makes it easier to drool over them, but when it comes to intimacy and sex, a woman's body is too soft, smells too sweet, too fragile, and even if it's not fragile it still scares him (like Ziva).

I don't think Tim is his usual type, he's not tanned or muscular but he smells right and he feels right, not that he's ever really got to feel him and he repeatedly tells himself that he doesn't want to feel Tim like that anyway.

Thanks so much for taking the time to write out your thoughts. It's interesting to read and also helps me understand my own. Thanks again :)